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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I trust him.

We've had separations like this before, and they've always been helpful, somehow. But this time, I feel like I need a break, which makes me wary of it.

We've been having trouble for a year and a half.  He feels like I am his roommate and I feel like he isn't understanding of how much more I am dealing with now with a child and full time job.  And that's not code for we're not having enough sex - although we're not.  I'm somehow afraid to be emotionally intimate with him after a REALLY rough patch (not cheating).[/quote]

You complain about a full time job and dealing with the child but won't you be doing this when he is away?[/quote]

I don't see where I complained.  My problem is his lack of understanding of the stresses in my life.  If he's away, I get a break from his lack of understanding, at least, that's what's happened before.[/quote]

Well maybe you need him to get out of the picture for a while. I'd say to heck with it. If the marriage is on the rocks, do the sink or swim thing. You'll either come out of this stronger, or move on to better things.[/quote]

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