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[quote=Anonymous]Trying to read in between the lines, your ex is a a hole if your bf saw you upset at times.  This is a good time to think about your past and future.  Do you want to allow a ex to sabotage your future?  Yes he's you children's father and you can respect that, however stop allowing him inside your home, and do the exchanges quickly with little conversation. At the kids age it's should be clear what the visitation schedule is.  Maybe a confirmation email and start to minimize the contact with ex.  Let your bf know you are putting the past in the past, and just because you have kids with the ex, doesn't mean he has to be in your life.   If you do plan to marry him then you and he can co-parent together, and have your ex and his partner co-parent on their time.  This seems to work best for couples with new partners.

Is there a way you can move into bf's home, and you rent yours???  That may work out best in regards to your ex thinking he can come in your home, and may help with the boundary issue.  Again I would do what I could to have a better future minus the ex.  I see too many people that mess up their lives over ex's yet they empowered them all along.[/quote]

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