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[quote=Anonymous]I've been divorced for 5 years. I have 2 kids. I've been dating a guy for almost 2 years. We recently had the serious conversation of moving in together.  He owns a house and so do I.  He would rent out his house and move in with me.  He told me that he is ready for this and wants it.  He said that he's been ready for about 6 months, but keeps hesitating because he knows that moving in together and getting married to me is where he wants to head. BUT he said that he is challenged by thinking that his future with me will still have my ex in it and he can't stand my ex.  My kids love him and get along with him. My ex comes to my house for the occasional pick up/drop off, as I go to his for the same.  My kids play sports, so my ex is there as well.    I CAN see myself with my boyfriend and getting married.  I don't know what I'm supposed to say or do (if anything) about his feelings about my ex that are "holding him back from moving forward" with our relationship.  I told him how I feel about him and that I am ready to move forward, which he was glad to hear.  It still did not help him decide.

My youngest is 11yrs old, so my ex will be around for a while still.

Do I just let him make the decision on his own eventually and ride it out until then?
Do I tell him that he has to make a decision soon (if he ends it with me and the kids we will all be very sad and have to move on) as we have invested years into this relationship expecting it to go someplace?

I guess I'm just not sure what, if anything I should do at this point.  Thoughts?

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