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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did you all know it was over and time to call it a day?  I'm struggling with this now.  We have 2 kids and there's no abuse or cheating.  Just general unhappiness.  How do you when it's time to walk away?[/quote]Do not  walk away until you have busted your ass to work on it with therapy both couples and individual.  Don't try bi weekly therapy and say you tried.  Change yourself.  Be who you want your spouse to be.  Work. Don't just complain.  [/quote]

and when you do that and nothing changes on the other's end, how do you cope?  what is next?

my spouse and i are at this point, and i am committing to be vulnerable and the best spouse i can be.  it's hard to not expect things to stay the same, and how to deal with that sense of rejection if it does. [/quote]

Try to be optimistic in the meantime PP, and stay out of threads like this. Focus on more positive things. You guys are not there at this point today, and hopefully you never will be. Take it day by day. The work is hard enough without reading things like this. I'm taking this advice too BTW.[/quote]

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