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[quote=Anonymous]I'm an adoptive mom, and I looked into adoptive breastfeeding. One of the things that makes it hard for adoptive moms to induce lactation is that you should start the protocols before the baby is born, and many adoptive mothers don't get a lot of advanced notice. I found out about my child on a Tuesday, and brought him home on Friday, so there was no time for months of preparation. With a surrogate you'll have a much clearer time frame, so I would imagine that would increase the likelihood of success, although I admit that I didn't research surrogacy situations in particular. You can, of course, also allow your child to nurse at your breast, for the purposes of bonding and comfort, even if you aren't producing milk. There are devices called supplemental nursing systems that allow you to feed your child at your breast. I looked into those, but ended up with a child who was HIV exposed. At that point, there wasn't conclusive evidence one way or the other as to whether a child could transmit the virus to their mother via breastfeeding, and so my adoption agency recommended against it and we didn't do it.[/quote]
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