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Reply to "Those who initiated divorce or separation, how did you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I confronted him after feeling like playing a charade for a year and said I want an open marriage or a divorce. He was in agreement. The open marriage thing lasted less than a month as he didn't like me doing what he was doing. I signed a lease to an apartment and when home to tell him. Only thing he said was he thought we were going to go slow on this and that was he on the hook for my rent. I ended up having to show him a budget that yes he would be just fine. I moved out a month later. We told our young daughter. It's been hard on her but she's somewhat comfortable with it now 3 1/2 years later. ALthought she does ask me if he had been nice to me and cared for me and asked me to marry him again, would I say yes. I didn't answer but my head said - hell no! It's been a long road but its the best thing I could do for myself and him - to walk away from abuse that was not going to stop, but only get worse. Peace of mind was worth every penny, wrinkle, and tear. [/quote]
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