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[quote=Anonymous] If *you* are a kind and loving person, no one will hate you, OP. So show up, smile, be caring towards SIL, say positive things about everyone in a sincere way. Ignore your husband and his brother if they exchange barbed comments - it's not your fight. My IL situation is nowhere as bad, but my husband can certainly pressure his family into doing things they don't want to do, and sometimes I don't agree with his opinions or his methods. I speak up in front of all of them, and tell him he's wrong, but I don't let myself be dragged into arguments, I let him discuss it with his brothers. They are all capable of fending for themselves. That way his family sees that I am my own person. I love them all, and I believe they love me back. [/quote]
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