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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think OP is getting some unnecessary grief. It's not clear that the budget needs to be THAT tight, and the DH is clearly dealing with some control issues. It doesn't seem like there is an overall budget or plan (or at least a transparent one). It's hard to live under such a tight budget for a long time. A treat every once in a while is a good thing for everyone's morale - and being able to use some extra bonus, unexpected $$ as a treat seems like a great idea. [/quote] I agree but her DH is working a part-time job in order to pay for groceries and other everyday expenses. There doesn't seem to be money in their budget for treats, unless they're living on a shoestring budget in order to be able to save a ton. I could see how her DH feels resentment that she wanted to use the extra cash just on herself. I think that being SAH won't be sustainable for OP and her DH. It will lead to way too much bickering and resentment to be worthwhile.[/quote]
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