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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, that's what your relationship has become, and it may not be one you can fix because both people have to want to fix it -- you can't do it on your own. If you haven't done so already, the next time your brother asks you for money, I would lay it out for him directly. "Brother, DH and I have loaned you a lot of money to help you out in the past, but that money has never been repaid and we are no longer in a position to give you money. You know DH was forced to retire a couple of years ago due to his disability, and I find it hurtful that even though you're in a better situation than us with two able-bodied people who can work to support themselves, you still expect us to support you." Then see what he says.[/quote]
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