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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People who had spouses who cheated in the past:

1) do you really ever trust them again?
2) do you wish you'd just divorced when it happened?
3) is your marriage better now?
4) anything else with your 20/20 vision from the future?

FWIW, we are a year out from the end of the affair.[/quote]

1) 10+ years after and the answer is no. He says he's been faithful since then, but who knows. He had multiple affairs in the 7 years leading up to then.
2) Yes, in a way I do. It would have been easier to leave when the hurt was fresh. Also, family would have been real supportive. Now if I leave I will look like the "bad guy".
3) The past year has been rocky and I've seriously considered ending it.
4) I am really questioning my commitment and whether I should have stayed. I have never been able to connect on the same level again and sometimes I feel like it hasn't been fair to either of us. Maybe we should have just admitted the marriage was over and both walked away (but the kids were little then and I had a newborn at the time). [/quote]

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