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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What to do with the house - you move out with the OW since she is your priority, give her the divorce and set her up well since you destroyed your marriage and give her a year in the house (with you help paying) so she can adjust and make another plan (especially if you have kids).  [/quote]

We have one child that's another reason I don't want to tell her right away about the pregnancy. She's already angry that I've "ruined" her life and her chance to have another baby. Finding out I have a baby on the way will kill her.[/quote]

You did ruin her life and now you child will suffer through a divorce because of you selfishness.  Either you get every other weekend and some summer or 50/50 and mom loses out on a lot of time with her child.  You took vows and made a commitment and instead of doing the right thing and divorcing before seeing someone else, you cheated, are having another child  and have no empathy for the path of destruction you are leaving behind.  Since you have a child, right thing to do is let her have the house and help her pay it off.  Its the least you can do along with generous child support and a college fund for the kid.[/quote]

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