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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People who had spouses who cheated in the past:

1) do you really ever trust them again?
2) do you wish you'd just divorced when it happened?
3) is your marriage better now?
4) anything else with your 20/20 vision from the future?

FWIW, we are a year out from the end of the affair.[/quote]

1) No. And he's given me lots of new reasons not to ever trust him again.

2) I wish I had been able to divorce him - but having a 4 month old baby and a toddler and nowhere to go - I was stuck. If I could have left I would have, but he knew I was trapped.

3) No. We went to a therapist for awhile but it didn't help, and he continued to have self-esteem issues and substance abuse problems.

4) You try and you try to be supportive hoping that the person you loved is still in there , and in the end you are just exhausted and incredibly sad because you've wasted so much time and energy trying to make things right. I wish I had gotten out, now I just feel old and tired. It's a cliche but true - gave him the best years of my life and made him and the kids always come first... and got railroaded. Watch out for yourself because no one else will.

I'd rather be alone than be married now. [/quote]

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