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[quote=Anonymous]1) do you really ever trust them again? No. 2) Do you wish you'd just divorced when it happened? Yes and no. Staying and watching allowed me to understand that my unfaithful spouse was mentally ill, and thus I have been better able to protect my kids. 3) is your marriage better now? No. Marriage was never able to recover. 4) anything else with your 20/20 vision from the future? As a condition of staying as ex asked, I should have had ex sign a post-nup agreement detailing the terms of our divorce, custody and child support. I believe it would have been eye opening for him to have to consider and plan for the unravelling. As it was, it was clear that in the fog of infidelity (and mania) he had no understanding of the repercussions of his behavior. A post-nup may have forced him to face reality. [/quote]
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