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[quote=Anonymous]My BIL's sister died suddenly. Funeral arrangements will be a gathering one day and a Catholic Mass funeral and maybe a reception afterwards the next day. Question is whether I should go to one or the other. I'm going to support my BIL, but did not know the deceased very well at all. I think we met twice. Issues to consider that might help you help me decide - I'm not Catholic. Everything is just over an hour's drive, I have a flexible work schedule. My sister is flying in from the Midwest to attend the Mass, then will leave immediately after. If I don't go to the Mass, I won't see my sister. I believe in showing up and supporting family and friends in grief, but is it inappropriate for me to attend either since I'm kind of far removed? [/quote]
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