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Reply to "Spouse's lack of follow through driving me insane"
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[quote=Anonymous]How many of these things you want him to change. were issues before you got married/had kids? If this is how he's always been, expecting him to change now is unrealistic. These kinds of habits are in significant part hard-wired and the effort of trying to change is exhausting, so it's no wonder he falls back into his old routine after a week or so. If these are new habits (the messiness, staying at work too late, falling asleep on the couch), you might want to consider whether there is a bigger issue underlying them, such as depression. If there is an underlying reason like that, he probably won't be able to change the habits until the underlying issue is resolved.[/quote]
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