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Did you recently post an expanded version of this a few weeks ago? If it wasn't you, then there's another DCUM-er whose mother believes her divorce is due to an affair.

I'm sorry your mother is acting this way. Do you think it could be the beginnings of senility?

Live your life and limit contact with your mother, without "cutting them off". My DH persuaded me to not cut off contact after my mother did some egregious things, and I am glad I followed his advice. Not only do I get to see my beloved father from time to time, but I find there are situations where my mother is sane - on the rare times I invite her to visit, and over the phone. I will never visit her, since apparently it triggers episodes of crazy.

Be patient and bide your time. Having had some experience with rumors and lies (sadly), I have found that holding my head up high, and not defending myself, is key. Don't explain. You can drop a comment to your father in the middle of your conversation such as "Mum seems to believe this fabrication that I had an affair, so she's acting all weird right now. But can you drop by on Sunday to pick up the stuff in the garage?" If you consistently treat it as ridiculous and go on about your life, then people will end up believing you. Actions speak louder than words.

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