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I've been struggling with DH with making promises and not following through for several months now. I've been patient, I've had talks with him, but no will on his part to do any of it until I reach my threshold and start feeling upset or hurt...but for the most part, I feel like I'm patient enough. I know it's mainly laziness than disinterest, and I know he has a genuine intent. That makes all the difference with me staying and putting up with it. The laziness and inaction though is getting tiring and I end up feeling disappointed or at its worse, utter resentment. The promises go from minor ones to big ones (picking up after himself, to not passing out on the couch nightly to leaving work at a reasonable hour to spend quality time). I honestly can't remember a time (while married) where he has followed through with what he said unless I'm upset and he will do it for a week then back to the same old habits. I would say it's beginning to cause a rift in our once solid relationship and I'm starting To have a hard time believing anything he says anymore. Anyone in the same boat or have any suggestions on making things better?

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