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[quote=Anonymous]I need help getting over/moving past this event from a few months ago.

Long story short: I was hospitalized a few months ago at 30 weeks pregnant. It was my first pregnancy and I was terrified. Everything eventually turned out fine and I had a healthy baby born at full term. Prior to this, I always felt like DH would take care of me and support me in the event of any sort of medical crisis but I felt abandoned during my hospital stay. DH would visit for no more than an hour day and I just felt so incredibly alone. I know DH had a lot going on at the time with work, grad school, and being a dad to his two kids but I feel like if the situation were reversed I would have dropped everything to be at his side. (And regarding the kids, several friends and the kids' mom offered to babysit if needed. He just didn't take them up on the offer.)

So that all happened months ago and I still dwell on it almost daily. Our anniversary is coming up and I don't feel like celebrating at all. I feel like my marriage isn't what I thought it was. I'd really like to put the whole thing behind me but I don't know how. I haven't discussed this with DH but I know he can tell something is off. [/quote]

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