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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, don't beat yourself up.  Don't feel guilty.  Make the most of the time that you do spend time with your daughter. If possible, make the time quality time where you play with her or read to her or otherwise focus on her. Don't try to clean or multi-task if you are seeing her for just those few hours a week.

Is there any time for you to re-arrange your schedule so that you can add time in to spend with your child? I know you said that you just started but is your employer willing to allow you to come in later and work later or come in earlier and leave earlier?  Is there any possibility of working from home so that your commute doesn't eat into the time you spend at home?  Can you facetime or skype with her each night before she goes to bed, even if your still at work? (I realize this may not work if you child will miss you more but for some kids it might be a nice way to connect even if only for a few minutes)

I think the way most moms who are successful do it is by being creative.

Also, while you are doing this work, realize its not forever and that it is pushing you closer to a goal.  Be sure to take care of yourself and take time for yourself when you can.  Burning yourself out by spending your time exclusively between your job and child isn't any good for anyone.

Good Luck and Hang in there! I know it's hard. [/quote]

Great advice. I will add that you should keep in mind they only need you more as they get older. I have a four year old and can already see it. If this is the choice to set your family up for less long hrs in the future, the trade off seems to me unquestionably worth it. [/quote]

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