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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]leave him or start seeing someone who is more alpha[/quote]

Terrible idea.....Have you told him your getting bored?  As a DH who has gone through this before it might just be that he doesn't really think about it.  You are married, he probably just kind of let things slip in the energy department.  I did this not on purpose but because I was happy.  I am more introverted and was feeling like I was getting everything I needed through what I was doing and my relationship, not recognizing that my wife was not, she was always much more sociable.  She told me and I was able to recognize what she needed to feel happy, which was different than me but just as valid.  Just tell him that you would like to do more interesting things, go out more, hang out with friends more etc.  Tell him you would like to do more stuff and would like for him to be more active in your relationship.  He will probably step up if you do it in a positive way, not that you are bored with him but would like to do more exciting things together.  Have sex a lot, make him feel like a star when he does take initiative to do more stuff and frames your relationship in the way that you want him to.  Chances are if you tell him, make him feel like a kick ass guy and have sex with him he'll come around.  
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