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[quote=Anonymous]I seem to have developed a fear or men of a certain ethnicity. I didn't realize this until I started to date a man who is of the same ethnicity as my ex-husband. My ex was both physically and mentally abusive. I only went out on three dates with this man and for some reason I had a strong gut feeling of fear at least at one point during our dates. This fear was not founded on anything that happened or that he did. For example, I he might say want do you want to do after dinner and I would get scared that he would get mad if I said I want to go home. Anyway, I then started to notice that anytime I am approached by men of this ethnicity in public, I get really nervous--like I'm scare of what they will say or that they will be aggressive or mean. This man that I went on three dates with continues to text me and I have been ignoring his texts. I thought he would give up, but he hasn't. I'm starting to feel bad about ignoring him as he did nothing wrong is being friendly in all his texts. Would it be okay for me to tell him that I'll never date him because I have a fear of men from his ethnicity based on my experience with my ex or should I just keep ignoring him? [/quote]

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