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[quote=Anonymous]I had a goal of being home with my kids for their first three years. DH and I discussed it before we married and were on the same page about it, and so far we've managed okay. But like a pp pointed out, that often means doing without things like retirement savings, or living in small spaces, shopping consignment and thrift shops. It's not okay to be at a point where you can't pay your bills!!! Either you haven't cut back enough, or you simply cannot afford to stay at home. Your "babe" would be fine in daycare. What your dh said hurt your feelings because it's true. You're being financially irresponsible. That's not an acceptable trade-off for staying home. [/quote]
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