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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another online dating vent, I suppose.  Every guy 45-55 says he is looking for someone fit.  They all seem to run or bike or hike or all three.

I consider myself thin-ish.  I would like to lose about 8 lbs.  If I do, this would put me on the very low end of normal weight for my height.  I am a solidly normal weight for my height now.

Do I run triathilons? No.  Would anyone in any way shape or form call me fat? No.  Will my poor c-section cut abs and mild diastasis recti ever look like a supermodel's abs? No.  Do I spend hours in the gym every day? No. Because working.

So do I say I am of "average" build and skip the guys seeking someone fit? Or not?[/quote]

Hmm. No, I put either "fit" or "thin" if those are the drop down choices. No one will find you if you put "average." Once you get past the filter, let them decide if they are attracted to you.

I know that sounds slightly unscrupulous but getting past the filter is pretty important in online dating. But do make sure to put up accurate full-body photos. [/quote]

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