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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We also had a long time together befor getting married, 7 years, living together, grad school, going through family traumas, etc. I thought the same but actually being married somehow sweetened things. Really, if you knew me you wouldnt believe i am saying this, i am a very no nonsense, get it done, realistic kind of girl. We did go away to a beach to get married, just a few people. I kind if regret not doing something closer to home with more friends and family, but still low key-never dreamed of the full wedding situation. One last thought...i did change my name but wish i krpt my own. Nothing against dh, just wish i kept that piece of my dad and my young self. [/quote] Thank you for this. I'm not "that girl" (clearly) but I'm excited. My name will probably stay the same professionally, but still not sure what I'll do personally. I'm known in my industry as "me". I don't know if I want to lose that. For a wedding, I'd like just the folks closest to us. When I say close to home or Vegas, I mean it. We will pay for anyone we want there to come, because they are the true people who have helped this all happen. At the same time, I'm thinking courthouse, but as we're far from loved ones, I already know that won't be a real option, without upsetting the apple cart.[/quote]
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