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[quote=Anonymous]So there is a lot wrong with my relationship with my in laws. We live very far apart. We have very different world views and not much in common. I think they favor the grandkids who live closer. I think my BIL/SIL are selfish and willing to make no compromises for cousins to have relationships. And so on. I've been biting my tongue and dealing with it all for a while for the sake of my kids and their relationships with these people, but it's been eating me up inside and frankly, harming my relationship with my husband. As a result, recently I brought up these feelings with my MIL/FIL (not with the BIL/SIL), realizing it likely wouldn't change much but hoping it would at least make me feel better. It didn't. I still have so much anger and resentment. At this point, I'm at a loss. I need to find a way to not stew about this for my own mental sanity. What would you do?[/quote]
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