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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm extremely close to my inlaws. So I'm not sure why my MIL would choose to buy me a blanket for Christmas but buy my SIL at least 5 nice items. I'm a heck of a lot closer to her. I didn't expect such an impersonal gift. We all open gifts together and needless to say, I was a bit embarrassed that I received a throw while my counterpart kept pulling out nice hand lotions, cosmetics and a dress. Perhaps I'm reading too much into it, but she made me feel like she was sending a message. I would've felt bad even if the tables were turned. I always go out of my way to buy gifts that will be appreciated. I take the recipient into mind as well as who will open up what where and in front of whom. Unfortunately, this happened on a few occasions. I don't know what gives. But I'm ready to get out of here. As much as I love MIL sometimes some of her actions seem a bit passive aggressive. [/quote]

Here's my thought. Maybe she realizes her relationship with you is strong. That's great! Have you read the other posts on here today about inlaws? Most of us hate ours. Maybe your SIL is in our camp too. Maybe your MIL realizes that and is trying to mend things and grow a relationship through gifts. Misguided, yes, but that's what I suspect is going on. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Gifts are gifts. You don't need 'em. Be grateful you have a MIL you can stand![/quote]

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