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[quote=Anonymous]So sit down and go over the finances together in a calm moment. It'll take two hours. Make a spreadsheet of what you have in all the bank accounts, retirement. See what's projects to come in, what the bills are and go from there. Knowledge and a plan is a good way to alleviate streAs and anxiety of the unknown.
We do this rundown once a month on the 1st. Helps for us both to know where we are and make a monthly plan and amend any yearly plan we have. 
It will be hard if your marriage had other issues but you have to start somewhere.

Besides that focus on his and your good qualities. If he's good with the kids then tell him that! 
I know this sounds like it'll be about him instead of what you want which is for him to make it about your and show his care, but he can't do that and you can't change a person from the outside and can only control what you do. So maybe if you really really try the kind and positive thing it will help. Not saying to walk on eggshells but to emphasize the good at least for a couple of weeks. 
Good luck. [/quote]

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