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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you concerned he's going to start online gambling? Do, my DH came to me looking striken a while back. He was pratically holding his breath when he blurted out that we had 50k in credit debt. I tend to blow a cork and he was expecting an absolute nuclear meltdown. I thought for a second and even though he is in charge of finances and authorizing purchases, it took TWO to get in that hole. My response was, let's figure this out together and get our shit together. He was visibly relieved. I did not even realize until that moment how much stress he had been carrying in his body until I saw it leave his chest, face, and shoulders. [b]You know what? We together kicked the shit out of that 50k in 8 months time. We now do finances TOGETHER. We are both responsible for keeping each other in line.[/b] You both got to where you are, now it's time to both get out of it.[/quote] That should have been happening since day 1 of marriage. [/quote] Ok?[/quote] Woulda, coulda, shoulda. It's happening now. And that is great. So shut the hell up and add value to the discussion like this poster did or sit down.[/quote]
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