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[quote=Anonymous]She's quite toxic. Narcissistic and maybe even a little borderline. She passively criticizes me and openly criticized me. Sometimes it feels like she just takes the opposite stance from me on everything. Right now, she's hard core into telling us that our kids eat too little fast food - that it's not normal to eat so little McDonalds. Mind you, she's a physician and yet, has either a poor understanding or nutrition or just wants to clash with me.

Dh is no help. He basically falls into whatever in laws want and then almost gangs up on me "hey, why don't you let the kids go to McDonalds more often? Why do you send a fruit every day?"

We are in counseling, but, frankly, have not made it to the in law issues yet.

So give me your best non alcoholic coping mechanisms! One holiday, I posted all her crazy on a single thread on dcum and felt supported that way. Another year, I texted a friend with all the insane quotes "you know that ear rings will permanently damage the 8yr olds earlobes, don't you. Earrings pull the earlobe down. She's becoming disfigured."

I'd love more ideas. My individual therapist said I need to let it wash over me and not affect me, but it's so boring and so painful.[/quote]

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