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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You come across as not being very invitiing, OP. I suspect that you bear the lion's share of the blame for this situation.[/quote] I'm really curious -- there seem to be several people like PP above who, when especially younger women post about ILs, argue that the OPs are not inviting, are standoffish, etc. (speaking about multiple OPs, not this particular case). Are the folks like PP who post these responses ILs themselves? I guess my question is-- are these comments based on experience? I've always felt like the person marrying into the family has the harder road in terms of gaining acceptance, etc., but I would be really interested (since I've only been on one side of that relationship) to understand if ILs are also struggling with the acceptance issue. I think it would just be an interesting perspective if, in fact, it is based on experience.[/quote]
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