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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does she want to do things with you other than sex? Date night? Watch TV or a movie together? Are you connecting at all? Honestly, it sounds like she may be depressed and needs to see a therapist.[/quote]

OP here. No everything we do revolves around the kiddos. They are young. 3 and 5 years. When we go out its with them. [/quote]

Is this her choice? Yours? What's keeping you from hiring a babysitter? 3 and 5 year old kids should be able to be left with a babysitter of family friend so that the two of you can get out for a walk and a real discussion of how she is actually feeling. You aren't going to make any headway on the sex until you made headway on the state of your marriage (kinda non existent at the moment, yes?). If it is really difficult for the two of you to talk openly you may need to enlist in a marriage counselor to help facilitate but your DW is not going to be interested in sex until her mood is better). Don't get me wrong I'm not saying you are responsible for her mood (she is) but that as a loving spouse you may need to give her a little push towards getting some help.[/quote]

OP here. This was not a choice. We just kinda fell into the routine. I will try the baby sitter route again but when done previously, we had trouble engaging in real conversation and ended up talking about casual surface level stuff. We also don't have a lot of disposable income to hire sitters all the time and then spend more money on a date night. Most of our friends are in the suburbs and not in the city so its very hard to make logistics work for them and us. excuses I know. [/quote]

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