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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Perhaps it's that your emotion is lost in the typing, but I am a bit floored at how insensitive and feeling-less and "ehh" this seems coming from a MARRIED MOTHER of 7 years with no real conflict going on.

Frankly, you sound a bit like a petulant and bored teenager who's been to college for 5 months and is sick of your boyfriend back home. "I'm not the marrying kind?" -- are we supposed to think that's cute, in a Sarah Jessica Parker kind of way?

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But who ISN'T a petulant bored teenager sometimes. Geez. Give her a break. Humans are selfish and this is an anonymous board.

The reason you might have no conflict, OP, is because you are avoiding or rug sweeping everything. 
I did that. For years. It totally kills intimacy. No, you don't fight, but no, you don't connect, either. 
I am currently trying not to avoid the little issues any longer ... if I want or need something from DH, or don't like something DH is doing, I try to say it. It is difficult, it is definitely a change. For somebody who doesn't like conflict, it is tough. It is resulting in more conflict. But it has to be better than feeling nothing at all. I hope so anyway.

Just something to consider.[/quote]

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