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[quote=Anonymous]OP here....  Thanks for the responses. They all make sense and I know in my heart it's the right thing to do, but it's going to be hard to have that talk.

You might be surprised to know that I'm the dad in this situation, I get the feeling most think I'm the mom.

What's been tough is that my kid sees financial wealth, or at least serious comfort, all around her. On top of that, her mom has helped her decide that her twin bed is no longer good enough. It's so hard raising kids these days - especially where we live (not DC) and because of their access to social media where everything looks so rosy.

We are starting new traditions including our own holiday party for friends and neighbors.  I always like having people around at the holidays and getting the place ready fir that helps set the spirit.

I feel like I can pull this off without the new bed and bedding.

My stbx and I are planning a settlement negotiation after the holidays.  Once I know where things stand and if I can keep the house, or if I'm forced to sell and move, I'll feel better about bigger purchases - or at least clearer.

Would you suggest I say something like "We just have to wait until things are closer to being settled. I'm not saying no - I'm just saying not right now"?

Thanks again for your input. [/quote]

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