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[quote=Anonymous]OP, sorry to hear this; it sounds difficult.

I think I would write one final email and make one final phone call outlining what you have said here in clear terms but without too much emotion.  Don't be mad at him, but you are doing something that is important to your daughter's interest.

It is worth noting that you are not really asking for much-- ie you aren't demanding child support $, but really just asking to formalize what already seems to be headed.  Remind him there is no rancor but that you are making sure your daughter is protected and able to live the best possible life.

You could even email the papers as an attachment to warn him and maybe that will encourage him to write back. You could also let him know even taht you are going to have the papers when he visits in person to sign.

I don't think it's too crazy to serve the papers.  It's not that big of a deal, honestly,if you give him proper warning.  
Keep reminding yourself this is not about him or you but about your daughter's interests.

Best of luck to you.
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