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[quote=Anonymous]DH isn't happy unless he is "piling it on" - for example, if the kids make a ridiculous request, he justifies it, instead of saying no.  DH's mother is known for this, she is passive aggressive and difficult.  It's her way or the highway, and change is *not* an option.  I am getting fed up, because it is really affecting DC, and how they treat me, as well.  Is there a good marriage therapist in the Falls Church area?  Male preferred, please help.

We have already brought DC to therapy, because it is getting so bad, and interfering with DC's life.  DC wants to quit everything to make DH happy, instead of DH helping the situation.  (Which is fine, DC can quit whatever they want, but it would not help, it would always be something else, with DH. Nor do I think that is the answer.)  DH generally refuses therapy (ideally, his whole family would go - but that won't happen this late in the game, the damage is done.)  There has been physical harm (no details, please - but a broken bone)  to me by DC, because DH refuses to take a stand.  There are issues that won't get better without *regular* therapy.  I don't know what to do. Actually, I want out, but I don't know if that is optimum for DC.[/quote]

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