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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So should I asked the school to tested him?

quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]RE EVL happened last year.  They didn't tested him. Last time they "tested" him doing the re eve was 4th grade.    Are they suppose to test him every time he has a re evl?   We are not sure about the American Educational system because we came to the US back in 2000.  So we don't know about all the policies about the USA and the educational system.     We are from Peru where they specal ed means something like back in the 1950s.. That why I don't really questiosn that teachers I don't want to be rude or anything

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP if your child is in middle school then you should reach out to his case worker, assuming he has an IEP.

This case worker is usually one of his teachers, and they can tell you what is really going on at school with regards to his communication with other students.

I am confused as to why this has never come up before now? If these difficulties have existed for longer than 3 months, then they should have come up in past IEP meetings.

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His grades are good his GPA is 3.1.  He doesn't want to talk in class because he doesn't want to get in trouble..  It never came up in the IEP because it wasn't a problem for him before this year, His IEP its next month.  He has a doctor appointment  12/21 st.  I am not if   he has ADD or something else.  [/quote]

OP if you are unsure if he has ADHD or "something else",then you MUST get him a private neuropsychological evaluation. [b]Do not rely  on the school's "psychologist" to do this because they are not really psychologists and many times will label your child with a "diagnosis" that fits their agenda.[/b]

Is his IEP meeting next month his 3 year review?

And when you said he doesn't want to talk in class because he doesn't want to get in trouble, what exactly do you mean by this?  why would he get in trouble? is he in public? which county? [/quote][/quote]

The IEP Re-Evaluation happens every 3 years, at least it does in Montgomery County.  To prepare for the re-evaluation the SpEd team at the school will do an assessment on your son to make sure that he still qualifies for IEP services. They will also do their version of a neuropsychological evaluation - this is the evaluation I mentioned that you should try to do on your own with a private psychologist, especially because you mentioned that you didn't know if he had ADD or something else.  If you can afford to do this, please get a private evaluation with a top psychologist! The cost for this is usually around $3000-$4000, and is not covered by insurance.  A good psychologist will be able to tell you everything about your son and it will be accurate, unlike those that are done in the school system.

With regards to the definition of Special Education in the US.  it is not at all like the 1950's definition of SpEd.  If your child has an IEP, they are technically in the SpEd program and this includes kids with mild ADHD.  Perhaps others will chime in on my last comment and provide their feedback on this as well. [/quote][/quote]

No OP - If you can afford a private psychologist this is what I would do.  You need to find out what your son's real learning profile is.  The school psychologist is not capable of doing this, although they will tell you that they are capable! Its all BS.[/quote]

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