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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you for sharing.

Ironically, I come from a culture where infant adoptions are often not revealed. I have read threads about this on this board, and they left me depressed. It seems the consensus is children must be told "early and often," and those who choose differently are appalling liars. I have my own thoughts on this, and frankly, I am not sure at this point what I would do. I guess if we ever get to the point of actually choosing this path, DH and I will need to get on the same page about this.

Right now this just seems a technicality to me. I am much more preoccupied with how I may feel about the child. Will I feel like his/her mother? Or will I feel like gestational carrier? DH is much clearer on that, because he is pretty sure he would not be able to love someone else's child as much as he loves DS. Thankfully, we don't need a male donor, and with me everything is less clear cut, since I will actually carry and birth the said child. Hence my questions. I wonder how people actually feel once the children are here...[/quote]

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