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[quote=Anonymous]Have you talked with your DH about it? Why not figure out between you about how many visits a year make sense? And then your role is making room for those in everything else you schedule. Talk with DH. "We have x and Y happening and I thought z or q weekend might be a good time to see you parents, will you ask them?" That's what I do. I don't keep up regular contact with my ILs, DH does, and things are better with this approach. Sometimes DH will bring it up, and I do leave it largely to him, but if I see a busy time approaching I also identify when would be a good time for me/us rather than leave it completely to DH who would leave it to the last minute and stress me out in the process.[/quote]
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