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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Now I am on the grocer's website and see a "no alcohol or tobacco" option. She smokes and drinks, a very very expensive habit for someone on her income. Would it be a jerk move to use the no alcohol/tobacco option? I don't want to embarrass her if he goes to use it for a purchase including these things and is then denied, but I definitely do not want to fund her illness and contribute to her declining health.[/quote] OP, money is fungible. Your funding her legitimate groceries will free whatever other funds she has or can get, to spend on whatever she chooses. I can see why you might still choose to give in whatever form, in the hopes that your gift will trickle down to your teenage cousins. [/quote]
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