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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your husband/spouse was cheating on you and had been doing so for over a year, would you want to know?  Or would you rather not know, especially if your spouse had no intentions of leaving you?  Also, if you got the news from an anonymous email would you necessarily believe it?

Sometimes I feel like confessing to her is the only thing that will lift the guilt that I feel.  But then I think no, it would just ruin her life and their kids' lives.  Maybe she already knows and doesn't care.  Or maybe she has her suspicions but would rather not know for sure.  I hate living with the secret though.  As for him, I don't know how he does it.  I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one he's cheated with, and that also makes me think that maybe she already knows what he does.[/quote]

Unlike the PPs, OP, I say this as someone who's been in your shoes: don't tell. Unless she is a friend of yours you have no idea where she is coming from and what she would want (and maybe not even then). It is really hard to do and it will bother you for a long time. But it is the safer and wiser call, esp with kids involved. Put him and the whole relationship behind you as fast and completely as you can. And stay away from married men in future. If he tricked you into it (as mine did) you should find it way easier now to not be deceived that way again. If you did it with your eyes open, consider it life experience and DONT DO IT AGAIN. [/quote]

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