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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Normally I am a pillar of strenghten. But the holidays are hard for me. They just are.

I totally married the wrong person, and I'm bound to him the rest of my life because of my child. Sucks I have to share my community with him. Sucks he walks around like big man on campus. Sucks that its hard to make friends in the school community because of my divorce status. It's lonely. I do ok for myself. I really do. I have a lot of strenghth most of the year. But its the holidays, the idea of "family", and having very few people to lean on. That's my world.

And so it goes, some of you will get it, some of you don't. I certainly don't want to dwell on it, but going to a chorus performance last night, with oodles of extended nuclear families everywhere, while I sat by my lonesome, yea, it was hard. If only he wasn't narrassticc I would've have to leave him. And I'm glad I did. I'm not hung up on him. But we were that nuclear family for the first 5 years of my daughters life. And while I don't want him, I miss the stability, having another to lean on etc etc etc.

I know I'm not the only one out there that feels like this. In this time, can the DCUM community please be kind to me? Just for a month or so? Thanks much.

(And he's narrasstic because he ignores me and my role as mom. Has his girlfriend to step in to do his parenting duties. That is tough to watch some random person parent my kid. But that's my ex to a T. Always pawning off responsiliby so he can go play).

(and yes, many spelling errors. I confess. Be kind DCUM.[/quote]

It's not even quite a spelling error, OP. Read what you typed out loud -- it doesn't even remotely sound like the word you mean.[/quote]

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