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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Let me add some context. I quit drinking, weed, smoking on my own. I was never out of control, crazy party guy - I was a high-functioning substance abuser. I had tapered back on booze maybe 6 months ago. Weed maybe a year ago. Smoking was coming and going as job stress waxed and waned, but I'm over it. Looking back I feel like I was trying to mask something or make myself happy. In retrospect I feel like I was smothering some lingering unhappiness with my marriage even though there was really nothing seriously wrong. So now all those masks have been gone, my mind is much clearer, and I have spent months thinking about why, as time went on, I seemed to be more and more unhappy. I pin it on my marriage for reasons I still can't quite figure out. DW is flipping out feeling blamed. [/quote]
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