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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Borderline personality disorder[/quote]

Possibly except she really doesn't check many of the boxes for symptoms... She's just irritable and quick to anger.[/quote]

And she blames everyone else but herself, right? It's never her fault, or her issue?[/quote]

Correct. Everyone around her is an idiot. Including me (granted, sometimes I am... but usually I'm spoke to in a tone that begs the question "and what kind of idiot are you?" -- she talks to the kids that way, too.)[/quote]

Sorry OP, but if you are allowing your wife to treat your kids like this, you are allowing her to emotionally abuse them and there will be repercussions. Part of the fallout is that they will be angry at you for not sticking up for them and for allowing this to happen.

And yes, it will continue to get worse and worse b/c your DW has a personality disorder that is not going to resolve itself. Whether it's narcissism or BPD as someone mentioned, we can't really tell online, but you need to let her know it's not OK and she needs therapy stat.

BTW -- you should go see a therapist, describe some of this family dynamic and maybe you will believe how sick it is and how you are enabling it. Not trying to blame you, but your job as a parent is to protect your kids. [/quote]

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