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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh, OP, I'm so sorry.

What I would do: 1. alert the hospice this is a possibility. Let them be the gatekeepers AKA the bad guys, if your in-laws show up unannounced (and uninvited).
2. Refuse to engage. This is about them, and their horrid manners. You have wasted enough time, trying to be pleasant and let them know the situation. They are not close to your father. They are absolutely not in the "right" here and their reasons are, frankly, offensive.
3. If things escalate, your husband must absolutely take your side on this.

Big hugs to you OP. Huge hugs. I'm sorry you have to watch your father in this state, and it's being compounded with these dolts.

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+1 million   Especially the part that your husband needs to step up and tell his parents to back off--to back off from you and to back away from your dad.  Shame on your in laws for doing this to you and your dad in this time of sorrow.

You sound like a good, protective daughter, OP.  Hugs.[/quote]

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