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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, are you concerned because his relationships with men have all been very short in duration, while his relationships with women have been longer?[/quote]  Op here, I was "comforted" in the fact that his relationships with females have been longer (since I am a female!) ...I am just struggling to understand the mentality. Will he "miss" a relationship with a male, simply because of the difference in body parts? It's one thing to get "bored" with a  relationship (which someone of the opposite sex, or fall out of love...) but if I physically can never offer the same physical relationship that a man can offer to another man, then can a bi sexual man truly stay in a long term (marry someday??) committed relationship with a woman? [/quote]

I understand what you are saying, but even as a women, you cannot fulfill every sexual appetite that he may desire from a woman. Straight men cheat all the time.

I'm not sure what the right answer is, other than not to jump to conclusions about him. I think you at least need to be able to trust him, that he will not "experiment" behind your back. Maybe insist that if he is really feeling the urge to be with a man that he needs to be upfront with you first about it. Keep that line of communication open so he doesn't give up and just go on the DL  Again, even straight men cheat, so it's not entirely fair to single bisexuals out for this.[/quote]

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