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Reply to "feeling disappointed in DH's reaction and support"
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[quote=Anonymous]So my DH can't (won't) offer support if he doesn't feel it makes a difference. (This is why so many guys go straight to the "here's how you fix it" or "what can I do" approach.) He needs to know that he's not just pouring effort into a void, which is why the support for support's sake isn't forthcoming. He claims it is too frustrating for him. That is not my instinct in how to deal with people, but it seems pretty hardwired into him. He is a low-frustration type of guy. I don't ask for support anymore. It is a big gulf. I'd go ahead and try the counseling and John Grey and all that, but if my case has any lesson, it is not to expect that these steps necessarily will change him. Needless to say, our marriage is poor.[/quote]
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