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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk to your divorce attorney about how to document.  I would be very cautious about calling CPS without any physical evidence.  N[b]arcissistic people will deny anything and make crazy accusations against you.[/b]  I wouldn't have the confidence that, absent some kind of evidence, CPS could figure out his narcissism. [/quote]

OP, this is my worry. Last time I confronted him, he said I was lying, making stories up, putting this in DC's head, etc. So I had to just write down any mentions and wait. The problem is, call it intuition, I know something is going on. But DC loves dad. But something is up, because dad is looping me into spanking conversations now in front of DC, which is weird, because he knows I don't spank or want to. And he's trying to unite us as both spankers with DC. I'm worried. I want to protect DC but i just know with someone whose whole family is as good as he is about denial and lying, I'm going to lose. And before anyone asks, I was stupid, and young and didn't value my own instincts. Every time something was weird and they shot me down and denied it, I believed them. It didn't happen until we were divorced, and I saw all they're all capable of, till I understood that for years, I was mislead, gaslighted and mentally abused. And that it is their MO. And there is not a day that I don't regret that I was stupid to not see it, and now have a child in it. [/quote]

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