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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you never just horny OP? Why do you associate sex with so many bells and whistles? Perhaps that is your problem.  You expect sex to be some kind of barter game which you both trade favors, him affection,  chores, etc and you sex.

Me? I get horny, I see a penis (DH's), I fuck. Simple. Sex is not something you do for someone, at least I don't think it should be[/quote]

guy here.

i read this and thought the same thing. there seems to be this pattern with people in this forum associating helping out around the house as the turn on to getting sex. i mean if i see my wife cleaning up the house, i dont get horny and i doubt she gets all hot and bothered by me doing the dishes.

now the texts, flirting, cute notes are things that can help you see your husband as lusting for you. i get that. the he doesnt help around the house and expects sex is something ive never understood in here.

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You don't get why repeatedly and unfairly making someone do more than their share of the work would make them mad and exhausted and not feel like having sex? It's not that housework is erotic or a quid pro quo. It's that is can be hard to feel intimate with someone who repeatedly hurts you. [/quote]

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