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[quote=Anonymous]Op, she is panicky, desperate and lashing out. She is hurt. BUT - Mom does not need to be accommodated. You do not have to address irrational arguments. Hopefully she will cool down but she probably needs time and space to cool down. I would not try anymore discussion for a while. You did nothing wrong. There is nothing wrong with your plans. Don't you over think this - you don't want to rick losing your confidence over this in dealing with Mom. Her details and explanations/reasons do not matter - if is perfectly reasonable for you to make your own plans, plans that may change year to year. I'd say if you have more problems with these outburst, about this visit or other visits/issues, then break the future news via an email. [/quote]
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