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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd call her out on it. "Mom the guilt trip isn't fair. We've been with your for the last 9 out of 10 Christmases. This year, we decided to see DH's family. How can you claim that isn't fair to you when they've seen us for ZERO Xmas days?". Though, for my family, this would be incredibly late to be making Tday/Xmas plans. We normally talk about who will go where on our beach vacation. If you were making a change to a long standing tradition, sometimes it's easier if you let people know WAY in advance so they can make other plans. It's not a requirement, it just makes things easier when everyone knows what to expect. [/quote] +1 to all of this. Kind and loving but reasonable response to her hurt. [/quote]
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